Is The "N" word Ok?????????

Almost every day now I hear the word “nigga” said by every race that is in America today. I hear it so often now it’s almost a term of endearment. Some people try to defend themselves by saying I said it with an “a” not an “er” but all I could do is laugh. I tell them just because you change the suffix of the word that doesn’t mean that people won’t have the same reaction to it. It seems like my generation doesn’t care about what happened to people with color in the past. It’s one of two things they don’t care or they just forgave and forgot. Even some of the older generations say the word like its natural. I just don’t understand why African Americans get mad when Caucasians use the word. We use the word in everyday life and very frequently so we have no right to get mad and try to fight someone over it. Me personally being an African American in America could careless who uses the word. I say this because words can’t hurt me I would only take action if the situation becomes physical. And finally I don’t like the fact that people take credit for things that happened to some people. My parents weren’t called niggers by anyone but their friends the only people that has the right to get mad are the people that fought for equal rights and subjected to true racism with no consequence for those who did it. So everyone else needs to shut up take responsibility for making the “N” ok to say for everyone.